tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2331972089469544815.post8799152007526187040..comments2023-09-08T00:33:36.907+10:00Comments on Do I Really Wanna Blog?: Almost OverThea http://www.blogger.com/profile/11598198538476571667noreply@blogger.comBlogger12125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2331972089469544815.post-81577453928160988422011-11-10T14:43:10.488+10:002011-11-10T14:43:10.488+10:00Seriously, my "break up" with my ex-bff ...Seriously, my "break up" with my ex-bff has been harder on me than any other relationship fail I've ever had. <br />Losing a girlfriend is waaay more heart breaking than pining over any ol' man could be.<br />I found the article below a little bit helpful, maybe you will too;<br />http://hellogiggles.com/how-to-cope-with-a-bff-breakup<br />While I'm glad this girl and her dramas are out of my life, part of me is sad and feels lost without her.<br />Take heart that we've all been there and still cry a tear or two and the unfairness of it all.<br />Sometimes being a grown up really sucks (at least if we were 5 we could punch her and move on hehe) xoxKaterinahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00423487717305629604noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2331972089469544815.post-55391381458061456032011-11-10T10:13:44.218+10:002011-11-10T10:13:44.218+10:00I can sympathise, I too have been through somethin...I can sympathise, I too have been through something similar. It's tough, cry all you like at home :)Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05616174670830126744noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2331972089469544815.post-5742083891412431032011-11-10T07:07:12.077+10:002011-11-10T07:07:12.077+10:00I'm really pleased to read that you wont have ...I'm really pleased to read that you wont have to face her anymore and I hope this means that you will now be able to establish new friendships and move forward. Big hugs mate xxChristiehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09276070221178771348noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2331972089469544815.post-50769551315450143572011-11-10T06:50:13.941+10:002011-11-10T06:50:13.941+10:00Thea, this post is so timely for me, thankyou for ...Thea, this post is so timely for me, thankyou for taking the time and effort to write it. I have recently made the awful decision to let go of my Best Friend. She has become toxic to me and my family. Incredibly I put up with mean mind games, nasty comments, humilitation so she could get a laugh from a new friend... And then I discovered she had shared a very personal, horrible situation with sveral people, and criticised how we dealt with it. <br />And yet even though I know she is not a good person, even though I am still hurt, I miss her. I am struggling to let go.. an yet what I am seeing, is I am missing the friend I never had. She was never wonderful, she was manipulative. She has a gaggle of new friends, who just don't see it ... yet.<br />Hang in there, know you made the right decision. Toxic people have no place in your world. xxxbuttonbrainhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02644950461887904205noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2331972089469544815.post-34908640269573173372011-11-09T21:37:07.896+10:002011-11-09T21:37:07.896+10:00Oh my goodness Thea, I found this post so honest a...Oh my goodness Thea, I found this post so honest and raw and brave. You poor love, there is nothing worse than the feeling of being excluded and it sounds like you might just have been through one hell of a bad time. I am currently having some 'issues' with one of my best friends. Nothing has been said or even done, it's just a feeling, a mood, even. I am trying very hard not to blow it completely, but it means having to bite my tongue, which in turn just leads to avoidance. VEry silly indeed. But I am also a firm believer in people changing, I've witnessed it before and maybe both of us have just changed without realising it. Hope you feel somewhat relieved after Friday xoAll For Lovehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13151973819133926868noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2331972089469544815.post-68881627487282924372011-11-09T21:07:42.056+10:002011-11-09T21:07:42.056+10:00Blah! I hope next year is a fresh start and the o...Blah! I hope next year is a fresh start and the other mothers have forgotten her, as they so often seem to do!KHhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07673666217224096529noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2331972089469544815.post-82638282261500599512011-11-09T18:03:24.210+10:002011-11-09T18:03:24.210+10:00Oh Thea. The tears were likely relief too? xxOh Thea. The tears were likely relief too? xxDiminishing Lucyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02072304081006798910noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2331972089469544815.post-53608195939688985432011-11-09T16:45:01.348+10:002011-11-09T16:45:01.348+10:00If I remeber my sweet, you didn't stuff up, sh...If I remeber my sweet, you didn't stuff up, she started playing mind games.<br /><br />It is sad, but good at the same time. Next year you can start fresh and hopefully find some new friends who will treasure you for the lovely person you are.<br /><br />xxMadmotherhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/18189416781378632230noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2331972089469544815.post-42388552144027346652011-11-09T16:03:39.063+10:002011-11-09T16:03:39.063+10:00Such a rollercoaster.
I hope next week finds you w...Such a rollercoaster.<br />I hope next week finds you with so much more peace in your heart - especially around school.<br />Don't be held back by that one failed friendship anymore.<br />(So easy to say, isn't it?!)<br />:-)Mum on the Runhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16543791863884733714noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2331972089469544815.post-84638375771196944082011-11-09T15:44:42.277+10:002011-11-09T15:44:42.277+10:00Awe! I feel for you! That was such a heartfelt p...Awe! I feel for you! That was such a heartfelt post! Have a glass of wine & I hope you feel better soon! Its their loss and I'm sure you've got and will make plenty of more mum friends. My little boy is starting Kindy this year and I was looking forward to making new friends myself, but like you say, it only brings drama's with it! XMumsLandinghttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01929023476590304453noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2331972089469544815.post-26891329972786599162011-11-09T15:40:49.021+10:002011-11-09T15:40:49.021+10:00Poor sweetheart. Breakups are so hard, even if ...Poor sweetheart. Breakups are so hard, even if 'just' with friends. Have a drink tonight and look forward to many new friendships.xxBenisonhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04571828221792556122noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2331972089469544815.post-3847558462134699242011-11-09T15:39:58.184+10:002011-11-09T15:39:58.184+10:00I haven been through that.
I lost a group of frien...I haven been through that.<br />I lost a group of friends because one made up a story & they all believed her, not once did I cry or feel sad, why when it was their choice to stop talking to me. Some days I miss that contact with other mums but the lack of drama has made my world much better.<br /><br />Its okay to Cry one day they will all see you are a wonderful person.<br />xVictoriahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00666862774865167028noreply@blogger.com