Oh, I'm pretty good at expressing a few opinions here, in my safe place, on my own blog.
But with the people closest to me, I'm hopeless.
I never speak up.
I try to please, but if I'm told I'm doing the wrong thing I clam up.
I shut up and suck it up until I can't take anymore.
Then all hell breaks loose.
And that's so effective...yeah right!
One of the most offensive things Dr Phil
"You teach people how to treat you."
Yeah, well, thanks Dr Phil for telling me that I've taught everyone to walk all over me.
That makes me feel so much better and gives me so much confidence in myself....NOT!
I don't think I should take responsiblilty for how other people treat me.
What they say and do is their responsibility.
Or is Dr Phil right? And do I have to admit I'm wrong??
Surely I shouldn't crumble whenever I'm criticized...
Surely I should be mature enough by now
Surely I must be the only one who's struggling with self worth issues...
Or are you all and you're just very good at hiding it?